"There
are possibilities for goodness in a world that's very filled
with turmoil." ~John Dye
In the Touched by an Angel
episode "Show Me the Way Home," Tess says "Some of our best
living is done through the people we leave behind."
Well, John Dye seems to have done some pretty amazing living
that it would be awfully hard to improve upon. However,
as people who are blessed and touched by his life, I think it
would be good for all of us to help continue his legacy of
compassion, respect for others, and love. I'm reserving
the space below for reflections written by JABBers and anyone
who would like to join us in our mission of honoring John by
service to our communities and our world. Please email me
if you would like to add a reflection.
We will remember John always. Let's share the blessings
and hope he gave us with the world!
God bless,
Jenni
From Jenni on January 31st, 2011:
I was twelve and an eighth-grader when Mr. Dye first
joined the cast of Touched.
While I didn't become a devoted (some might say obsessive)
fan of the show until Season 3, I know I caught several
Season 2 episodes. So it seemed appropriate to me
that, when I wanted to honor John Dye with some
volunteerism on his birthday, I went back to the place
that loomed so large in my life when I first saw
him. In addition, I've come to realize just how much
of a teacher John was to me. So I thought lending a
helping hand to one of my grade school teachers would be a
nice way to give back and honor the education in life
lessons he gave me. But, as people who volunteer
often say, I feel like I was helped the most of all.
And I thank him for giving me the inspiration and the push
I needed to leave my comfort zone and reach out.
Honestly, John was everywhere in this day. I was
floored when one of the first things I was asked to do was
listen to the kids as they recited the psalms they
wrote... their own 151st psalms. I instantly thought
of "Psalm 151." And it was so touching to hear their
prayers to God. The doves so many of them had drawn
on their papers, of course, had special meaning to
me. He was also in the annual spelling bee that just
happened to fall today. I could imagine Andrew so
lovingly cheering Aaron on in "How Do You Spell
Faith?" When it came time for the lesson on Rosa
Parks, I thought of him then, too. Not only because
Mrs. Parks appeared on the episode "Black Like Monica" but
because John was so devoted to treating everyone with
respect and dignity. Simply grading papers and
examining artwork brought up the whole of "A House
Divided." And his beautiful portrayal of Andrew
throughout 7.5 seasons was on my mind as the day closed
with the "Angel of God" prayer. I thought I might be
really sad today but by going somewhere and doing
something, I was not only surrounded by great people but
also these wonderful memories.
I think the most amazing thing that happened today was
when I was asked to listen in as one of the kids practiced
their reading for Mass. Appropriately enough it was
1 John 4: 7-21. I choked up when she read these
words: "And so we know and rely on the love God has for
us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God,
and God in them." That message of "God is love" is
what John brought us every week on Touched and it's a
message he lived. And now I know he lives forever
with God and there's great peace in that. I'm still
sad. There were so many times today that I thought
"God, I wish I was doing this just cause he was turning
48." But I know that even though John's gone Home
now, he'll still continue to be a part of our lives
here. Without him, I wouldn't have had this
extraordinary day. I imagine I'll be finding reasons
to thank him for a long, long time to come.
I'm really looking forward to my next outing which I'd
like to arrange with the local food pantry. I'm sure
on that day, too, the man who brought so many wonderful
things into my life will be very much on my mind and in my
heart. Thank you, John.
From Rebecca on February 2nd, 2011:
In honor of John
Dye's birthday, I purchased a bunch of items such as
soap, toothpaste, shampoo, etc, and took them to the
gentleman at our church who runs a ministry for the
homeless. I didn't know of a better way to honor
John's birthday. My hope is that
these items will bring some small amount of comfort to
someone who is in a difficult situation which I could
easily imagine myself or almost anyone in. I plan to do this
every so often as I have in the past with the many
homeless ministries here. I think by reaching
out as John did so often is the best way I can honor
such a wonderful man.
From Cindy on March 6th, 2011:
One of the things I loved about him was his
dedication to charity. I didn't actually do
anything special ON his birthday (except be kinder
to my students-I teach school) but the weekend I
found out he was gone, I had planned on
cleaning out my house and shed and donating a bunch
of stuff...of course I didn't- I was too
upset. Instead, the Saturday of his funeral I
did this. I knew I had to do something
constructive or I might find myself trying to drive
to Mississippi...I hired a professional organizer
that I've used before and had her help me so that I
wouldn't get mired down in my grief. I knew I
could talk to her and she wouldn't think I was
crazy. We accomplished a lot and I felt that
John would have approved. In an interview with
a Memphis t.v. station John's dad mentioned that one
of the charities that John was involved in was the
Make a Wish Foundation. This charity is close
to my heart because my nephew was hospitalized for a
month and Make a Wish sponsored activities and
events which he was able to participate in. As
soon as I heard that interview, I made a
donation. I received a letter from the Make a
Wish Foundation and it was dated Jan. 31-John's
birthday. The letter told of a young girl
who's wish was to visit New York City and attend
Broadway shows, tour different places, and ride in a
carriage through Central Park-and my donation helped
make that wish come true. Now is that right up
John's alley or What?!! A week in NYC attending
Broadway shows and touring the city!! I
am an avid scrapbooker and Creative Memories
partners with the Make a Wish Foundation as
well...they donate a percentage of the proceeds of
selected merchandise to Make a Wish. At our
annual weekend retreat last weekend, I decided to
buy the designated album to use for my 2011 year
instead of the album I already had-in memory of
John. Of course, I am already working on a
tribute page for John since I scrapbook my albums
chronologically. Every charitable event that I
participate in will remind me of John and his
work...and I am trying to give more and love more
everyday - as he did during his lifetime on earth.
A note from Jenni:
Now that the site Pay
It Forward in Memory of John Dye has launched,
I'm asking that instead of sending me things to add
to this page people visit that site and contribute
to it. JABB member or not, let's all join
together to make the world a better place in honor
of John! Thank you!
(The photograph used on this page is
from "True Stories from Touched by an Angel" and
owned by CBS Productions, Caroline Productions,
and Moon Water Productions. It is not being
used to seek profit.)